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In the last post, I asked you to take a poll to identify your album-making style preferences, regardless of digital storybooking and/or scrapbooking focus, by choosing album #1 or album #2?

Before we get to what your choice means, please think about your answer and ask yourself if your answer really reflects your preferences or if it’s more about how you may have been brainwashed into thinking about it? Just take a second, check in and make sure your answer is really your answer. It’s very important to do this and, if you need my help in finding your own perspective, just let me know. I’m happy to help you! Okay, ready to move on?

Now, what does your choice mean?

If you chose #1 (example below), you are choosing story and impact.You value meaning instead of decoration. This is the most streamlined and efficient way to get your photos and stories into your life.Thanksgiving 2007 - Page 035

If you chose #2 (example below), you are someone for whom the look of the page and probably the process of creating the decoration/patterns matters most to you. This tends to be the most time-consuming approach to album-making.Monica Koepfer

And, if you tried to choose only one album but just couldn’t, your album-making style is a strong combination of the two versions.

Why does knowing this matter? Because it frees you to be laser focused in establishing a process which is a match for your preferences! What’s important here is that you are able to recognize the style which is a match for you, own that and stand strong in that knowledge. It decreases the clutter of “shoulds and woulds”, which often keeps us paralyzed in inactivity.

Which style is your preference? Do you have an enjoyable, efficient process for making progress in your albums? If so, please share it in the comment section below.

In our last entry, I shared with you what scrapbooking was meant to be in the beginning, how it evolved and the myths which occurred from that plus where we stand now. My quest continues to be the debunking of our assumptions or myths about photo organization and album-making, aka scrapbooking, so the amazing perk from this to positively affect our relationships is attainable by all. 

For some, emphasis on moderately to extremely decorated pages is the perfect match for them, and my job is to keep the creative ideas flowing along with the get-it-done processes they may desire. For others, serving them best means helping them break out of the brainwashing they may have experienced regarding their photos and related processes… yes, the myths, so they are free to focus on photos and stories on a page! 

Based on research accumulated by Creative Memories (hereafter known as CM), this is how we know that the interest level breaks down, approximately:

  • 15% of the population wants to decoratively scrapbook via paper or digitally
  • 5% of the population wants to have their photos/digital images organized, period…. the end!
  • 70% of the population wants to get their photos/digital images with their stories into their lives via paper albums or digital storybooks
  • 10% of the population wants nothing to do with any of the above 

If you are wondering which of the first 3 groups you fit into, do this activity with me and share your preference via the poll at the end:

Pretend for a moment that I know where your parents live, where you grew up.  I went up to the attic and found 2 albums they completed for YOU!!

  • Album 1: They began this album when you were just a baby, and they put in photos and filled each page with stories…. stories of when you took your first step, your birthday parties, what a joy and blessing you were for them as well as the irritations you all lived through. They added Faith stories and times you were “caught being/doing good” for others. It was filled with pages of photos and stories of their love for you.
  • Album 2: In this one, after your parents were told their albums could/should be more decorative, they learned so many decorative techniques, they could have taught classes on decorative pages. They put a photo or 2 on each page and some captioning but concentrated their time and energy on creating pop-ups, sponge painting, fold-outs and big decorated pages.

If I told you that you could only have ONE of the two albums, which ONE would you choose? 

What does your choice mean about your album-making style? Check “Part 2″ of this 2 part series of posts to find out!

“Scrapbooking”…. the joy or bain of my existence, depending on the moment.  Most people who know me, know that I’m all about photo/digital image organization and getting them out of hiding and into something in which we can enjoy them, like Digital Storybooking or Picfolio/Traditional albums. When I’m asked, “What do you do?”, my answer is usually something like:

“You know those photos/digital images that can jam up our drawers and clog up our computers? Well, I teach people how to organize them into something they’ll love and make a difference in their relationships.”

Most of the time, the response is “wow, how do you do that?!”, and we often begin an amazing journey from there. Yet, some of the time, the response is “oh, you mean scrapbooking?!!” When I get that response and I followup by asking what “scrapbooking” means to them, I usually hear:

“that’s something my (mom, daughter, sister, aunt, best friend… you fill in the blank) does and she spends hours and hours on her pages (meaning decorating them). They are beautiful and I could/would never have the time/talent/money/interest to do that.”

This is when the term “scrapbooking” is the bain of my existence and why I’m on a quest to debunk the myths of “scrapbooking”.

Let’s see how these myths began, briefly…. when people first started putting photos and captions/stories in albums, it was just that…. photos and stories in albums. This was known as “scrapbooking”, and a company known as Webway was a major player in the album-making field.  Many decades later, in 1988, the company I’m excitedly an Independent Consultant for, Creative Memories, (CM) came on the scene, born from the vision and passion of Rhonda Anderson 6a00e54f77ee13883401156f07cd36970c-800wiand brought to being with the expertise and collaboration of her co-founder, Cheryl Lightle.  As the industry evolved, the process of scrapbooking took on a crafting variation which included lots of things with which to decorate pages. Now, people had choices. They could continue in the scrapbook tradition of photos and stories on a page, which in and of itself is NOT particularly time consuming and involves little to no creativity, or those who felt craftier could include and have fun with the new page decorating items, techniques and processes. How nice to have choices, right??

Well, instead of page decorating being a nice option for those who preferred the aesthetics and/or therapy of it, it became the definition of scrapbooking!! Many traditional scrapbookers bought into the myth that in order to make albums or scrapbook correctly (or the “right way”, as I sometimes hear), it had to involve page decorating… and often lots and lots of page decorating. Something which was supposed to be a next step in additional options somehow became the “measuring stick of correctness”  and very competitive.

Yes, I will admit that my company and most of our consultants led the way and the call to “craftiness”, while becoming the leading scrapbooking company internationally. Before I became a consultant 6 and a half years ago, even I bought into this myth!  Having discovered CM 1993, believing the myth kept me frozen and unable to complete 1 album or even 1 page…. and missing out on a most amazing “secret weapon” in my parenting toolbox while growing my family.  Yet, when I did become a consultant with CM, I broke free of these myths (with the help of one very brave and forthright consultant, Kimberli Brackett) and have devoted my energy and attention to helping others do the same; in the process, demystifying and simplifying photo organization and album-making while matching my friend’s and client’s photo preferences to compatible processes and techniques.   

That brings us to today and the myths of scrapbooking persist, creating backlogs of printed photos and computers jammed with digital images, not to mention missed opportunities for “bullet-proofing” our relationships.  Where are you in this regard? Have the myths held you back? Do you have people in your life who could benefit from albums filled with your encouraging words?

To help you understand the power behind the “secret weapon” of stories with and without photos, consider this…. what’s your impulse when you are out and about, in a restaurant perhaps, and see someone you  don’t even know passing around photos? Have you ever walked into someones home, saw an album or even just a stack of photos sitting on a table and felt pulled to take a peek? If so, you are like the majority of the population, including me.  We feel compelled to pick up that album. It’s just the way we are. We have a natural, innate curiousity about photos and their stories. And, guess what? As is the nature of the “human being”, if the set of photos or album has US in them, we are beyond curious…. we are laser focused!

What do you think happens when we use what already exists… our photos, then add our words of love, plus stories of faith, lessons learned, values, character traits noticed and more and make someone the “star” of the story? Yes indeedy… we have created an automatic high interest HOOK; that tool which has the capability of adding to the “bullet-proofing” of our kids…. truly, of any person/relationship we care about! I truly believe this is one of the best kept secrets of the world!

Who do you have in your life who could use some “bullet-proofing” for living in our world? Who’s full attention would you like to have and what would you like them to hear/learn from you? Please share with us in the comment section.

My son, Brian, fully involved in a SB!

My 26 year old son, Brian, fully involved in a SB!

Do you crave a way to truly connect with your kids on an ongoing basis?

Do you have “lessons learned” from your own mistakes or failures which knowing could help your child as she navigates her world?

Do you wish your child saw himself as you see him with all the strength and support that would give him?

Are there values and family stories you know are important to be learned and passed on?

What about helping your child see the God Moments in her life; really seeing her “faith-in-action”? 

Like me, you have probably sought ways to capture your child’s attention in order to accomplish any of those things yet have found your efforts inconsistently effective at best. Talking and lecturing will only go so far… usually in one ear and out the other. We know our kids learn best by actions and behaviors they see modeled for them consistently. And, we aren’t always around to “teach, model and support” when our kids may need it. In my world of “digital storybooking and hybrid scrapbooking”, I have found the most amazing and untapped “secret weapon” in our parenting toolbelt; one which has challenged the myths of scrapbooking and has given me passion and determination to bring to you… the secret weapon of photos AND, more importantly, the strategic use of words and stories!

How are you striving to shape your children’s development? What lessons, values, character traits or faithbuilding are you wanting to instill in your kids? Leave a comment sharing your goals as a parent or someone important in the life of a child.

My son, Brian, fully involved in a SB!

My 26 year old son, Brian, fully involved in a SB!

Do you crave a way to truly connect with your kids on an ongoing basis?

Do you have “lessons learned” from your own mistakes or failures which knowing could help your child as she navigates her world?

Do you wish your child saw himself as you see him with all the strength and support that would give him?

Are there values and family stories you know are important to be learned and passed on?

What about helping your child see the God Moments in her life; really seeing her “faith-in-action”? 

Like me, you have probably sought ways to capture your child’s attention in order to accomplish any of those things yet have found your efforts inconsistently effective at best. Talking and lecturing will only go so far… usually in one ear and out the other. We know our kids learn best by actions and behaviors they see modeled for them consistently. And, we aren’t always around to “teach, model and support” when our kids may need it. In my world of “digital storybooking and hybrid scrapbooking”, I have found the most amazing and untapped “secret weapon” in our parenting toolbelt; one which has challenged the myths of scrapbooking and has given me passion and determination to bring to you… the secret weapon of photos AND, more importantly, the strategic use of words and stories!

How are you striving to shape your children’s development? What lessons, values, character traits or faithbuilding are you wanting to instill in your kids? Leave a comment sharing your goals as a parent or someone important in the life of a child.

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